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The Frustrated Toddler

April 6, 2008

I know you look at this picture and think your yourself..how could this kid ever being anything but adorable but let me tell you something about this 15 1/2 month old boy named Max. In the past 2 weeks I think he is either really suffering form ear infection or Teething OR he is just coming into his own. I mean to say that he is getting pissed off when he can’t get his way. He is either throwing his head back and actually hitting his head into the wall or he is throwing himself on the floor kicking or he is just screaming. I am sure you all go through this as well but it feels like it came out of nowhere or maybe I am just tired. I try to speak to him and say things like:

1. I know you must be frustrated

2. You know that screaming in not the best way to communicate .

My newest one is ” You know we don’t do that because Mommy and you have talked about this before”. I am not sure if any of them work but after a long day of a fussy ear ache, teething and fussy toddler, I think anything is better than losing my shit. Max is also so curious and so bed time is not as smooth as it used to be. He still goes down fine but he wants to get up and down and up and down. Max also is testing boundaries because he tried to hit me today while we were playing and I said, we do not hit because that hurts people’s feelings and then he laughed and tried it again. Any suggestions or any stories that happen to you with your kid or kids?

Just a little on pregnancy.. and our day

I am not one of those women that was having morning sickness with Max and this time I am not feeling that way either. I only say this because all I want to do is eat. Eat and eat and eat. Oh boy, I thought this time would be different. I thought that maybe I would not want to eat as much since the “nervous first baby syndrome” was the cause of the eating then but NO WAY- cause I am not nervous and this is not my first. I am just damn hungry. I want Thai, chinese, japanese, and salt. I am not craving sweet oddly enough but that is because I SLOTHED my face out March 26th and the thought of sweets would make me sick. Today we went to a family birthday party for Max’s cousin, Abigail, who turned one. What a cutie. It was nice to see the kids together and nice to see family and nice to eat potato chips. YUM. Then we went to the lay ground since it was 60 degrees and that was fun. My parents met us there and played. It was nice to watch them play with Max. I was told once that seeing your parents with your child helps to heal some of the wrong doings in childhood and I have to say that maybe it is working for me..just a little more acceptance. Then we went to my father in laws house to see my husbands little sister leave for Prom in a Stretch Escalade. What fun. I would love to be that age for that one night.So now Max is asleep and hopefully he will sleep better. I gave him Motrin the last two nights but he still does not sleep past 11 pm. Since his ears are bothering him so much I have not had the heart to do any sleep training. Instead, he just gets in bed with us and cuddles and falls asleep. I am sure it will all work it.