Yesterday I interviewed a really nice girl that I think would be great but has not past experience as a full time babysitter. She takes care of her little ones in her family. I liked her but I did not see her reach out to play with Max much and that bothered me.
But last night I a woman answered my ad who has been a live in nanny full time for almost 5 year. She is leaving the in house nanny situation and watching the two little girls on Thursday and Friday and so she is looking for Monday through Wednesday work. Yeah, thats us. So the kicker is she is a yoga teacher as well, shops at my little favorite health food market and knows two of my friends. See I knew the right person would come along if I put the energy out there.
I know somebody without full time baby experience can do the job but it is a tough job and unless you have done it, well that worries me. So I am going to meet this girl today and hopefully it will all work out.
Then there will be no more drama. But of course, it does make me sad and I hate to tell anybody that we don’t them anymore but it has not been working. This is improvement for me because at one time I would have thought tit was not working because of e or I would have kept her on just because I felt bad. Wow, does this mean I am becoming an adult?
Have you ever wanted to avoid confrontation even if it meant keeping something or somebody in your life that was not beneficial?
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